Jaden Smith Needs and his Momma Both Need to Shut The Fuck Up

Here we go again.

Jaden Smith, the spawn of Jada Pinkett and Will Smith recently told kids to drop out of high school because school is useless brainwashes children. And his Momma backed him up.


Jaden Smith and his Momma need to shut the fuck up. Seriously, the entire Smith family need to drink a big ass bottle of SIT YO ASS DOWN.


I fear for the Black youth who listen to this nonsense. It's bad enough we got Lil' Wayne's Momma talkiing about how he benefitted from not finishing High school, now we got Jada Pinkett justifying her son's opinion about dropping out of school.  All this does is legitimize dropping out of High school as an option for Black youth  the same way Halle Berry legitimized the image of the Black Jezebel in 2002.


Listen to this stupid shit this woman says:

We continually forget that life is about discovering ourselves and our purpose. We spend so much time criticising one another for the decisions or inevitable pitfalls along the way that we forget that making mistakes, falling, failing and getting up again is exactly what life is about. Instead we try to use criticism as a way to pretend that we don’t fall, we don’t make mistakes or struggle, we pretend we have it ALL together, when we don’t. None of us have it all together. At some point I hope we all get to what’s real and surrender to the fact that we are all in the same boat, discovering and trying to figure out this thing called life so we might as well support each other along the way.


Just remember, you’re good, no matter what anyone else says. You are right where you need to be today. Keep living. The answers will come and be patient with yourself and others while we all…discover.


This is the most incoherent bunch of Babble I have ever read. This woman is so full of herself I wonder how she gets a head that big out of her ass every morning. Criticism helps us see the MISTAKES WE MAKE and OFFER US A SOLUTION FOR THEM. It’s people trying to teach us from EXPERIENCE so we don’t MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES THEY DID.


At 15, Jaden Smith knows everything.


I used to think this way when I was his age. Thought I knew everything because I could ride a bus and a train someplace and back home again.


Then LIFE kicked me in the ass at 16 on an N train on  November 12,1989.


Unfortunately, because Jaden is surrounded by enablers like his mother and father who justify his retarded ideas he’ll never learn those valuable life lessons I did until he runs afoul of the LAPD or he knocks up some chick and makes her a baby mama. Maybe when the Judge in Child support court is demanding $20,000 a month from Mr.Smith to give to some gold-digging hoe or he’s in the Iron college offering Brutus Milano cookies and Little Debbie snack cakes to keep him from violating his booty hole, He’ll come to understand the value of a good education.


Jada Pinkett is confident her children won’t grow up to be spoiled and troubled. She’s so into her own world that she has no idea how dysfunctional they are right now.


Jaden Smith is right on course to become the next Trayvon Martin. Or the Next Emmitt Till. Will and Jada are NOT preparing this boy to go out in the real world. That’s dangerous for a Black boy growing up to become a Black Man.


A Black boy needs to understand how to navigate the racist world of AmeriKKKA so he can not fall into many of the pitfalls set up to take him out such as Law Enforcement, the criminal justice system, and the nazi child support system. And two of the most important tools he needs for navigating life in this country is a High school diploma and a college degree.


Someone needs to school Jaden on the value of a good education. No one who drops out of school becomes more intelligent. There were a bunch of brothas I went to school with in Park West High School who dropped out of school for dope money back in the late 1980s. They thought they were so smart slinging them crack rocks to get money to trick on sneakers, leather Troop jackets, and light skinned big but heifers.
And where are they now? Pushing daisies or in the Prison system.


Jaden needs to look at his Dad. Then He needs to compare his Dad to the contemporaries of his day Biggie Smalls and Tupac Shakur. Neither of whom finished High school.


Where are they now? Six feet under. While his dad who finished High school went on to have that successful movie career and a family.


Again, Jaden Smith is headed down the road of Trayvon Martin and Emmit Till. Miseducated by his parents into thinking that he’s special and “good” and that the world will see how great he is.


This is how a MANGINA is made.


The way Jaden Smith is being raised is detrimental to him as a Black male. He is NOT special. In White Supremacist AmeriKKKa, he's just like every other Black boy out here: A NIGGER.


Jaden needs to understand that the world isn’t favorable to Black men, and life gets that much harder for Black males who don’t have a High school diploma. Brothers who drop out of high school to “discover themselves” like Jaden thinks he’s doing wind up working at Applebees’ frying up chicken tenders or at Ralphs bagging groceries for $8 an hour.


An employer doesn’t care to help you discover your purpose without a High school diploma or a college degree. That’s how life works. People without high school diplomas in real life struggle and their lives fall apart as they try to figure out how they’re gonna make $1500 worth of rent, $100 worth of utilities and S400 worth of groceries on that Applebee’s or Ralphs job that pays $8 an hour. And as they discover how fucked up their lives are at 35 they realize they should have kept their ass in school at 15 20 years ago.


If that criticism sounds harsh, then so be it. It’s the cold honest truth. I’d tell Jaden Smith and his momma that straight to their faces if I saw them.


Someone needs to show Jaden Smith that first episode of the Cosby Show when Cliff taught Theo about Money and the real world. I still apply the lessons I learned from that episode to my life to this day.


Brothers and sisters, if you’re in school don’t listen to the nonsense of Mr. Jaden Smith. At 15 he shows me he knows NOTHING and his imbecilic Mama knows LESS by co-signing his nonsense. Stay in school and get your high school diploma. Then go onto college and get your degree.


 Education has been a tool of empowerment for Black people for generations. People like Benjamin Banneker, Phyllis Wheately and the slaves when they became emancipated. It’s how Black people founded a middle class after slavery and how they built a strong community during Jim Crow. It’s what I use today to build myself and my writing career up today. The value of a good education has been the cornerstone of building up a strong Black family and a strong Black community.


Seriously, Jaden Smith and his momma need to shut the fuck up. In fact the entire Smith family just needs to shut the fuck up and sit their asses down. With Negroes like this in our community no wonder the race is going BACKWARD and not FORWARD.

How A Black Person Renders Themselves Unemployable

In the job market there are unemployed people and unemployable people. What’s the difference? An unemployed person is someone who has education, skills, and can bring a wealth of experience with them. It’s these tools that make them valuable in the job market.

An unemployable person is someone who brings absolutely nothing to an employers’ table. If anything, they carry a series of liabilities with them that make employers avoid them. And Black people already have one strike against them for the color of their skin. When they add these extra strikes to their resume it’s game over in the job market.

How do people render themselves unemployable? In most cases, by making a series of stupid mistakes when they’re young. It’s these bad decisions that come back to haunt them when they try to go out in the world or move up in it.

These include:

Dropping out of high school. Most jobs that pay a living wage today require a minimum of an Associates’ degree, a certification or a license in a skill trade. And the gateway to these areas of higher learning is getting a high school diploma.

Even the U.S. Military requires that its soldiers have a minimum of a High School diploma. All of these avenues for employment are cut off the day a brother or a sista decides to drop out of high school.

Too many brothers and sisters listen to people like Lil’ Wayne and the late Tupac Shakur and Biggie Smalls who stated that they dropped out of high school and still became millionaires. 

Not understanding that these entertainers got a million-to-one shot in life, one most brothers and sisters will never achieve.

What most Brothers and sisters don’t understand is that the road to success for a rap star leads to a dead end in the real world. The average Black person has even LESS opportunity than these entertainers when they drop out of high school. Without a high school diploma the best a brother or a sista can do is low-wage work like working the counter taking orders in a fast-food restaurant or stocking shelves at a big box store.

Getting a tattoo. Lots of teens and twentysomethings love to get tattoos as a way to “express themselves”. But in the job market that skin art can cost them employment, promotions, and connections with key players in the business world in the future.

And some tattoos like facial and neck tattoos can permanently take a person of the job market. These kinds of tattoos are associated with mental illness or criminal activity, and automatically lead to a rejection in the job market.

When you work for someone else you represent their business. And most tattoos in America when it relates to Black men are associated with Prison or gangs.  Most businesses don’t want their businesses associated with criminal activity.

So when a brotha calls himself copying a rapper like Rick Ross or an NBA player like Lebron James, he all but destroys his chances of finding a job anywhere but low-wage retail and fast food for the rest of his life.

Remember, you dress for where you want to go. And the only people who get tattoos all over their bodies in the real world are gang members and prison guys doing long sentences. If you want to dress for success you  have no skin art, wear suits, ties and dress shirts every day.

Getting a Felony conviction.  Ex-offenders can get back into the job market. However those with felony convictions have next to no chance of finding full-time work. This is why that dude in the gang at 18 doing stick ups of grocery stores winds up stuck in his mama’s house at 38.  No employer will touch him because he has a felony on his record like armed robbery, first-degree assault or murder. 

Once a person gets a felony on their record many doors close for them in the job market. They can’t get financial aid for college like Pell Grants. They can’t apply for Civil Service jobs. And they wind up with their resumes tossed in the circular files of private employers who fear they will try to commit crimes in their company.

Dressing like a thug.  Thug culture may work on the street but not in the business world. Some brothas can’t stop with the saggin pants and big shirts and go out and buy saggin slacks, and dress shirts that are too big for them. Letting clothes sag lets employers know that they’re not ready for prime-time.

Brothers  you dress for where you want to go, not where you are currently.  When you buy business clothes you have to buy a correct sized shirt slacks and tie.

Dressing like a Hood Rat.  Some sistas think coming to work in low-cut blouses, short skirts, slinky dresses and skintight pants is the business. But what they don’t know is that it takes them out of the game. Again, these sistas like the brothas show an employer they’re not ready for prime time by dressing like they’re going to the club and not for work.

Again, Sistas, you dress for where you want to go, not where you are. When you buy dress clothes for work you have to buy skirts that go to the knee, slacks that drape across the legs, blouses that provide full coverage, and earrings no smaller than a quarter.  You want an employer and clients looking at your face, not your body.

Be a Drug user or have a history of drug addiction. Drug users are notorious for being unreliable. Which is why employers avoid them like disease.  What most brothers don’t understand is that even the most casual drug use like smoking weed on the weekends can show up on a drug test for a job six months to a year later.

Most businesses regularly test for drug use, especially in the case of new hires.  And that weed some brothers and sisters like to smoke on the weekend will eventually show up in one of those tests. And when it does…there go the chances of getting that job.

Have a history of thefts on the job. Some brothers and sistas who manage to find jobs in places like retail like to take cases things off the truck and put them to the side for themselves or their friends. Or they like to order more merchandise than what is needed and skim off the top. They think they’re going to make a little extra cash selling stuff on the street in the neighborhood. What they don’t know is that they’re on the fast track to… a felony conviction.

What most brothers and sisters who work in retail or warehoused don’t know is that in this computer age is that every package is tracked. On top of it, most employers have digital cameras with hard drives connected to networks inside their stock rooms and the sales floors. So every action they take is being recorded and there’s a clear trail of evidence that can be used to prosecute a brotha if he decides to take something that isn’t his.

Have a history of unprofessional behavior. In White Supremacist America, it’s hard for a Black Man and a Black woman to get a job. And harder to keep it. And when irresponsible brothers do dumb stuff like coming into work late on a regular basis, being absent all the time, not showing up for work, and quitting after a week or two it makes it ruins their chances of finding work with another employer. Hopping from job to job gives a Black man a spotty work history and no real work experience.

Worse, it makes it that much harder for the next Black man or that Black woman to find a job at that employer. Having the previous brotha or sista reinforce all the racist stereotypes about Black people makes that employer not want to take a chance on a brother who could have been a decent worker.

Have a history of spoiled rotten™ Behavior. Some brothers and sistas expect the job to be like their house.  When they’re told to do something by a supervisor they don’t like they have a tendency to throw a tempertantrum. And in those adult tantrums some will curse out a boss. Others will just refuse to do anything.  And a few will just quit on the spot. Then they’ll put this employer down as a reference for another position they find out about their unprofessional behavior.

Brothers and sisters we already have one strike against us just for being Black. Adding extra strikes against yourself by doing dumb stuff only makes it that much harder for you to make a living in America. Don’t take yourself out of the game before you get a chance to play!

Personal Power and the Intangibles of Manhood

 What is personal power? The power a man has over himself. It’s these intangibles that make up the composition of a man’s character; who he is on the inside.

The internal traits of a man based on his intangibles are what lead him to act. And its his actions that define who he is to the world. When a man understands what his personal power is he can take control of his life.

A Man’s personal power consists of:

Strength- The strength of character to stand up for his beliefs and values. A man with strong character stands in the face of any challenge put front of him. He does not fall or break when push comes to shove. He does not compromise his morals or integrity.

Dignity-Thinking you are worthy of honor and respect. If a man believes he is valuable he will be seen as valuable by others. If a man respects himself, others will respect him.

Self-respect –When a man puts a value on his dignity to realize that there is a boundary he doesn’t cross. A man who has self-respect realizes that he is more valuable than anything or anyone out there and doesn’t act in such a way to lessen his value as a man. Real Men act like they are the prize, and make others work to EARN their respect!

Self-control-The ability to control one’s emotions, thoughts and desires. A man with self-control thinks before he speaks and does not let his emotions dictate how he acts. Yes, he understands he has feelings, but he understands that his thoughts control his actions.

Self-discipline- the ability to control one’s ability to act on one’s emotions, thoughts and desires A man with self-discipline understands his character is defined by his actions. And he controls  his emotions and thoughts so he can act in a way that’s constructive.  

A sense of self-worth the ability to value oneself and understand one’s value to society. When a man understands what makes him valuable, he knows what he brings to the society’s table. And when he knows what  he brings to the table he is considered a valuable asset by the members of his community.

Self-love The ability to value who you are for being who you are. A man who loves himself accepts himself for who he is. He does not change or compromise to please others or to make them happy. He understands he is valuable just for who he is. And he understands that he is so valuable that he will not stay in a place or among people who do not value his presence. A man who loves himself understands his time is to valuable to waste in places where he isn’t wanted among people who don’t want anything to do with him.

Men who love themselves are capable of loving others and having healthy relationships with them. A man with self-love can share his life in a loving relationship.

When a man understands the value of his personal intangibles, he learns to value himself. And when a man values himself he does not put anything or anyone above his own worth.

A Real Man understands that things aren’t valuable unless he establishes a value on them. And even in those cases he doesn’t put that value above himself.

A man who understands how much he is worth does not sacrifice his personal intangibles to please others. A Real Man understands it’s not his job to make anyone else in the world happy. People are responsible for their own happiness. If they don’t like a situation in their lives they have the power to change it.

Too many men today sacrifice their personal power to please others, especially women. Their made to believe that making others happy will make them happy. This is one of the biggest lies men have been told over the last 40 years.

Thanks to this lie, and many men out there have sacrificed their personal power for things that have far less value than they are.

Because they lack the strength of character and the resolve of discipline, most men today don’t understand that they could have the very same things they sacrificed their personal power for if they just exercised a little patience.

A man MUST NEVER sacrifice his personal intangibles for anyone or anything. Because when a man sacrifices his personal intangibles, he sacrifices his personal power. And in doing that he gives power to others over him!

When a man sacrifices his personal power he loses face in the presence of other people. Because when a man does not respect himself, he does not give other men a reason to respect him. Again, a man must see himself as valuable for others to value him.

Men, your personal power is one of the most important parts of you. Don’t sacrifice it for a woman, money a job or anything in this world. The one person you have power over is yourself. You control who you are. And when you understand you control who you are, you can define who you want to become.

Quality Control-Yeah, Shawn Messed Up Again

I publish a lot of books in a year. A lot. Counting off the titles I’ve produced this calendar year it’s almost eight or nine books. I currently have eleven paperbacks in print right now and over 30 something eBooks.

I’ve come a long way from 2009 when I was only producing one book a year and had only two in print.

Some say I’m like a writing machine. A one-man publishing house. Writing all those books plus three blogs a week and articles for stopthecoonery.com. But even the most well-oiled machine can break down. And when those breakdowns happen, it can lead to quality control issues in product.

In July I published the sixth eBook in the Isis series, Isis: My Sister, My Frenemy. While the plot was great and the story fun, there were some plot structure, grammatical and sentence structure issues. I apologize for the errors in the first edition Isis: My Sister, My Frenemy, and I will make efforts to make sure that it won’t happen again.

I had to revise the book several times to deal with these issues. And anyone who got a copy of the book on their Kindles during the two recent free promotional periods in late August and Early September got the revised version of the eBook.

The paperback edition of Isis: My Sister, My Frenemy will not have these quality control issues.

My problem with Isis: My Sister, My Frenemy was that I was just too passionate about getting the story to market. I loved this story so much and I was too eager to share it with readers. It was the same mistake I made with The Cassandra Cookbook five years ago, another book I loved writing.

Normally, I take my time to edit a story before hitting the publish button. But I just felt so enthusiastic about this one I wanted to get it out there to readers. I enjoy writing this series and I try to put as much passion, heart and spirit on the page so that the stories come alive for the reader. Sometimes that passion overtakes my professionalism, and I don’t temper my love for the story with the discipline of an editor.

After last month’s snafu I learned I needed to slow down and dial it down a notch. Publishing eight books in three months I’m really pushing myself too hard. The last thing I want to do is make a bunch of sloppy mistakes and publish a poor quality story.

Which is why I’m taking my time with Isis: All About the Goddess. That story was slated for a September release, but due to the problems I had with Isis: My Sister, My Frenemy, I’m gonna wait until the week of Black Friday to release that title. I have three titles slated for release this fall, and I want them all to be top quality.

I’m trying to get back to my high level of quality; this time I’m ordering a print copy of the paperback so I can proofread and check for errors. I want this eBook and paperback to meet the standard I established on The Temptation of John Haynes and All About Marilyn, many who read those paperbacks thought those books were such high quality they could compete on a bookstore shelf.

I know my readers (all two or three thousand of you) work hard for your money (the handful of people who actually pay for my eBooks and paperbacks) and I work hard to earn it. I want to give you the best quality reading experience when you buy or try one of my eBooks. I believe as customers, you deserve the very best from me and I want to keep you coming back to read more of my work. I hope you’ll enjoy the three new titles I’m publishing this fall, and I’m hoping more of you will come back and buy some of my older titles. Maybe even come back and buy a paperback or two to share with others as holiday gifts.

The Black Man Has to Stop Worshiping at the Altar of VAGINA

The Black Man’s priorities are out of whack.

Thanks to forty years of Black boys growing up living in single Parent female headed households has led to two generations of Black males who growing up in a dysfunctional way of thinking. Most Black males today don’t think of doing things for themselves. In fact, they don’t even put themselves first. No,a majority of today’s Black males puts a Black woman on a pedestal and bow down to worship at the altar of VAGINA.

In today’s Black culture heavily influenced by feminism, The Black woman is put first and the men live to please her. This is a reversal of God’s natural order of things. God established Man as the leader over the woman. But in the Black community the Black man follows the lead of a Black woman.

Talk to a majority of the Black males today (not the REAL MEN) and the first thing coming out of his mouth is women. He lives to please women. He lives to chase women. His main priority in life is having a girlfriend and access to a steady of supply of vagina.

And to get that steady supply of vagina, he’ll sacrifice his personal intangibles like his dignity and self-respect just to get the attention of a female. Some of these brothers are so bad off they have Pussy on the brain twenty-four-seven. Some of them actually get upset when another man says he doesn’t have a girlfriend. In their warped minds if a man isn’t chasing a woman or trying to please one, there’s something wrong with him.

When in actuality there’s something wrong with this Black male. He has made Vagina his god and has bowed down at the altar of the Black woman offering her tributes to get to the sacred space between her legs. Whenever someone challenges one of his “goddesses” or “Queens” he’s the first to take up sword and shield to protect her at all costs. Many a Black man has sacrificed his own life just to protect the woman and her vagina.

The Black man has inflated the value of Vagina far more than it’s actually worth. And because a majority of Black males worship at the altar of Vagina, instead of the Holy God who created them, his community has gone straight to HELL. Thanks to his obsession with pleasing women he has not focused on doing God’s work. Instead he has focused on buying women clothes, shoes, cars, and other assorted trinkets and making her happy, or they spend inordinate amounts of money buying things and dressing up like a peacock to get a woman’s attention.

The Black woman has become the Black man’s god. And this is a total disruption of God’s natural order.

A God-centered man is focused on doing God’s work. A God-Centered man is focused on pleasing God and puts God first above all else. He’s focused on building things. Leading his community and his family. Protecting them from dangerous outside forces like Madison Avenue, Hollywood and Feminism. And teaching his children the values they’ll need to build their own strong families in the future.

For a God Centered man a woman is his helper and support. He does not live to make a woman happy, she is happy because she’s following his lead and has faith in his ability to lead her and support her.

A lot of brothers today need to get their priorities straight. Black Man, God made you to lead, not to follow. He made men to please Him first, and yourself second. He gave you the skills to create and to build up your communities. He made you stronger than a woman so you could protect her and support her. It is not your nature to chase after a woman; she’s supposed to chase after you! Remember, God made woman to help YOU, not men to help women.

Brothers in the Black community have to tear down the altar of Vagina and stop worshipping the false goddess known as the Black woman. No matter what the White Liberals and the White Feminists tell you in their media, she is not a superwoman. She is not more powerful than you. You have the mental power to overcome this propaganda and be the strong leader God created you to be.

Shawn Deconstructs Terry McMillan's Waiting To Exhale

During my early twenties I was given Terry McMillan’s Waiting To Exhale by my sister to read. Also during my younger years I also bought and watched the 1995 movie on VHS. Now the White Supremacist literary world praises this novel for detailing the lives and loves of four single Black career women.

But now that I’m older I see this story as more misandristic feminist bullshit that portrays the Black woman as a victim of Black men. However, in reality she’s the victim of her own poor choices.

I’m going to break down the numerous reasons why these women couldn’t get a man and why they’d would remain single for the rest of their lives. No Real Man wants to Get to Happy with women who are miserable in the company of each other.

Now the primary reason these women were single wasn’t because there wasn’t because of a limited pool of available educated Black men. No, the reasons these four women were single was because of their actions and ratchet behavior.

No Real man would have made Savannah, Gloria, Bernadine or Robin for girlfriend or their wife. Seriously, what man in his right mind would think of bringing a woman like this home to their mothers? What Real Man would want to spend the rest of his life with such arrogant, belligerent, spoiled, entitled, materialistic and greedy women? What real man would want to be in the company of women who were spiritually and mentally lost?

Savannah on the surface was the single successful Black woman who had it all. Big house, nice car, six-figure job. Unfortunately, the only thing she didn’t have was character and integrity.

Savannah loved to tout her list of ever-changing high standards at the men she dated, but ironically had no standards of her own. She had nothing to offer men outside of her degree, her job and her material things and her vagina.

Spiritually she was an empty and hollow woman. And character wise she wasn’t wife material. This was the woman who was laying down with bum guys and having affairs with married men. She was so desperate for a man she settled for a role as a married man’s Side Piece.

Now if a woman will cheat with you, she will cheat on you. And when dudes find out you’re the woman who will cheat with them they lose all respect for you.

You can’t turn a Hoe into a Housewife. And that’s why no decent brotha wanted to marry Savannah.

To Real Men Savannah was pretty, single, and successful, but not marriage material. She lacked the character of a woman who would be good wife. She’s not the type of woman to be loyal or supportive. She’s the kind of woman who is so full of herself she can’t see past her own degrees and accomplishments to help a man build a something that will support both of them.

No, she built that on her own and sees a man as nothing more than another accomplishment on her list of things to do in life.

Savannah is the kind of woman who will run for the door when things get hard, when times get bad. She’s the kind of woman who won’t support a man when he needs her the most. Worse, she the type to rub shit in a man’s face whenever things don’t go right.

Savannah is most likely to wind up alone for the rest of her life or married to some poor Simp she’ll settle for. And while she’s married to this cuckold, she’ll cheat him on again and again in her quest to find “Mr. Right.”

Because no man will ever meet her list of ever-changing unrealistic criteria.

Robin was  a woman who had everything on paper but like Savannah, had nothing to offer in terms of character. Sure she had a college degree and a high-paying job. But again, in terms of character she was empty.

Worse, she had no personality, and no goals for the future. On top of that, she was arrogant and materialistic. She was always demanding that men bring something to offer her but she brought nothing to the table but her VAGINA.

And because all Robin offered was sex to men she never formed a connection with a man that would have allowed her to build a lasting relationship. What airheaded women like Robin don’t understand is that Real Men want more from a woman than just sex. No, we want communication, love, friendship and a deep personal, spiritual and emotional connection with someone.

And if we can’t get that from you we just pump you then dump you.

Thanks to Robin’s lack of personality and the fact that she only offered sex, the only men interested in her thirsty Simps like Michael caught up in looks or married Tricks like Russell who were paying for a little extra pussy on the side.

And because Robin was so eager to give up the sex to cover up for her lack of a personality, all those men saw her as was an easy lay.

Which is what Russell used her for his booty calls when his wife wasn’t available. And why he strung her along for years with promises of a divorce.

Again, if a woman will cheat with you, she will cheat on you. Again, you can’t turn a Hoe into a Housewife.

In the eyes of single eligible, Black men Robin was at best nothing more than a jumpoff for most Alpha males and a short-term fling for the rest of the Simps, Tricks, and Manginas stupid enough to get caught up in her looks. The chick guys can get with when all their other choices aren’t available. Sure, she’s pretty to look at, but she’s not wife material. No Real man wants to wake up to a woman with nothing between her ears and everything between her legs.

And because she knew she wasn’t wife material, this ratchet chick decided to trap Russell with a baby at the end of the story. Her decision to keep the baby wasn’t about being strong and independent. No, it showed how weak and co-dependent she was. She only kept that baby to keep the relationship with Russell going no matter what. The child was nothing more than a pawn to hold on to a man who was never hers to begin with.


 In Bernadine’s story were made to sympathize for her because we’re told her husband was leaving her for a White woman. We’re made to believe she was being abandoned by an cold ladder climbing Uncle Tom.

But Bernadine’s story is probably filled with omissions.

From an objective perspective it looks like she was a domineering shrew who emasculated and humiliated men. And John was just a Mangina who only wanted her to be his arm candy. Once this shallow Bitch-Made™ coward he elevated himself, he decided to “Trade her up” for a White Woman.

But despite John’s lack of balls, Bernadine is your classic drama queen. A classic Calamity Jayne*(Taken from the Iceman Show) she’s always the victim of someone else doing her wrong. This is reflected in how she complained about not being able to start her catering business due to John or the classic rant in the movie where she destroyed John’s property and then sold what was left for just $1 an item just to spite him for leaving her for a White woman.  Everyone was doing Bernie wrong.

But Bernadine NEVER wanted to take responsibility for herself or her actions.

Bernadine, being a drama queen complained and whined and talked about what she wanted to do, but NEVER made an EFFORT to change her situation during the time she was married to John. She probably knew she was married to a Mangina years ago when she had kids by this punk. But instead of being proactive and getting rid of his sorry ass, she stuck around for the money, the house and all the other goodies she was getting from living as his stay-at-home-wife.

That’s Right Bernadine was a classic Gold-digger. Out to get paid for getting laid.

And her entitlement issues are the main reason why she never made a serious effort to start that catering business or an active role towards her own financial security. No, instead of stepping up she went back to her favorite role- THE VICTIM.

Real Men wouldn’t want anything to do with Bernadine. Why? Because she carries a BOATLOAD OF BAGGAGE.

And I’m not talking about the kids. Bernadine’s biggest problem is her narcissism, and her sense of entitlement. She believes men are supposed to do everything for her and that she’s not responsible for her behavior or her actions.

That kind of person grates on a man over time. They’re the kind of woman to do things to a man and never think he has any feelings. That he’s just supposed to be a punching bag for all her verbal and physical abuse.

A woman like Bernadine is the kind to project all her rage from previous relationships onto another man. She’s the kind of chick to start a fight and get a guy locked up on a domestic violence charge when he finishes it.
And her being a divorced mother just adds diarrhea icing to a shit cake. Along with her issues, she’s bringing kids along and this Mangina ex-husband. Once a man hears about Bernadine and her baggage, he realizes he’ll be  doing Pullman Porter duty and cleaning up a MESS if he gets involved with her.

Gloria had a successful business. But her personal life was in shambles.

First off, she was divorced. (BAGGAGE) And she was divorced because her ex-husband was gay. That tells most Real Men like myself that this chick has to be domineering in some way.

Second, she was bogged down with the baggage of a being a single mom to a teenage son. That alone would repulse most men.

On top of it she was obese. Most dudes wouldn’t want to get involved with her not only because of her looking like a hog, but because of her health problems. In the book (a fact OMITTED from the movie) Gloria had a HEART ATTACK. Yeah, most guys want to be in a relationship with a woman with a boatload of health problems while just in her early 40s.

Strike one: Divorced. Strike two: Single mom. Strike Three: Obese. Gloria was out before she hit the plate.

Yeah, she was a business owner. Beauty salons may make a lot of money, but when you’re surrounded by ratchet chicks, chicken heads and other loser women gossiping and putting business in the street, you’re getting filled with negative energy. That negative energy is going to keep you from attracting men to you.

In spite of these things, we’re told Gloria got a man. But I can tell everyone he’s just the SIMP around the corner. A desperate dude who probably was willing to settle for whatever he could get because he had no social skills and did not know his value as a man.

Most Real Men would not only avoid Gloria due to her divorce, her child or her obesity and health problems, but because of all the WORK he’d have to do if he got involved with her.

Any decent brotha would see a woman like Gloria and see a White waiter’s jacket and bow tie in her closet and some green coveralls next to them. Yep, Gloria doesn’t want a man to be a man. She wants him to be the Pullman Porter™ and the GARBAGE MAN who cleans up the mess called her life.

And life is too short to clean up the mess of two other people. Now that SIMP she got may have fallen for the game, but most other men would pass her hefty behind by for the childless woman across the street.

The biggest problem with Waiting to Exhale was that the women in the story weren’t looking for a man to be their partner. No, these single successful Black women were looking for a man to be an accessory to their lives. A Ken doll to sit in their Barbie dream house.  All these chicks thought they had a bigger dick than the men they involved themselves with.

Women who read Waiting to Exhale are made to believe it was the men they were choosing that was the problem. No, it was they way they were socialized to think from birth. These women had no respect for men or valued men. In their eyes men were just another object to scratch off on their list of accomplishments. It’s this dysfunctional feminist way of thinking is the main reason why these women were all SINGLE and will REMAIN SINGLE FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES.

Personally, I’m thinking Savannah, Robin, Bernadine and Gloria all came from a Matriarchal mindset. All of these women wanted to LEAD instead of follow.  They thought that their material things made them attractive, but it was those material things that TURNED OFF MEN.

Most men want a partner who will work with them. Someone who will offer them respect and cooperation, not material possessions and vagina. Someone who will help them build a relationship and a family. None of the women in this story offered the internal character traits men want in a wife. A man wants a woman who will enhance his life, not take away from.

Waiting To Exhale is a literary classic. It’s a ground-breaking book that spawned many clones. But Waiting to Exhale is not a literary classic for the reasons the public thinks. Waitng To Exhale is a classic piece of literature because It shows a classic example of how living under matriarchy and feminism has led to a generation of Black women being single and miserable. As long as Black women follow the failed doctrines of feminism they’ll be just as single and miserable as Savannah, Bernadine, Robin and Gloria were in the novel. And that misery will only continue into their old age like these four ladies encountered in Terry Mc Millian’s critically panned follow up to Waiting To Exahale, Getting To (Miserable) Happy.

George Zimmerman Strikes Again-Can We Please Put This Sociopath in Prison Before He Kills Again?

In previous blogs, I warned that George Zimmerman was a danger to all of American Society. This Monday he proved me right.

George Zimmerman was taken into police custody after allegedly threatening his soon to be ex-wife Shellie Zimmerman and her father in her father’s home with a gun.

In those previous blogs I stated that Zimmerman was a sociopath and that he was using race as a smokescreen to get away with murder. And that America wouldn’t see how dangerous he was until he harmed a White person.

That day has come. Let’s hope America doesn’t blow it again. This man needs to be imprisoned before he can murder again.

White America has egg on its face. Especially the jury that acquitted him of the murder of Trayvon Martin. They had a chance to prevent him from killing someone else. Let’s hope another jury is smart enough not to make that same mistake when they have the opportunity to put this sociopath away.

All the rednecks who donated money to defend Zimmerman and the White conservative pundits on FOX News which touted him as a hero now have to feel STUPID. These fools were so blinded by race they couldn’t see how they were manipulated by a sociopath who only wanted to get away with murder.

But instead of admitting they were wrong, these racists will probably just backpedal and distance themselves from him. Now that he’s threatened White people with his gun they’ll just say he’s Hispanic.

Because it’s easier to demonize a Hispanic person as a criminal than a White man. After all, Latinos are known for having a hot temper and beating on women.

But in the wake of this recent incident, there is no denying that George Zimmerman is a clear and present danger anywhere he goes. He is a sociopath who has no remorse and no sense of guilt. He believes he is above the laws of the United States Constitution. In fact, he believes he is the law and if things don’t go his way he can mete out his own brand of justice with a gun. He would have probably killed his wife and her father in the same cold and callous way he killed Trayvon Martin if he had gotten the chance.

All one has to do is follow George Zimmerman’s pattern of behavior to see that he is a menace to society. This attack on his wife is his SECOND domestic violence incident. Again, this is a man who has assaulted police officers in the past. This man has no regard for the law or the safety of others. He just pretends to protect and serve the community  so he can exploit the kindness of others and manipulate them into doing things his way.

George Zimmerman is a sociopath who follows his own law and his own logic. Less than a week after the verdict acquitting him for the murder of Trayvon Martin he was caught in a car with a loaded handgun in the glove box. He toured a gun factory. He had no sense of sensitivity or remorse for the Martin family or the Black community. In fact, he has never expressed remorse for killing Trayvon Martin.

It’s clear to me that George Zimmerman will kill again. It’s just a matter of time. I just hope it’s not one of your family members who winds up becoming a victim of his violence.

If this incident with his wife doesn’t wake up America to the insanity of George Zimmerman, I don’t know what will. We the People have to put this madman away before he is allowed an opportunity to commit another murder. White America can no longer use race to excuse his violent and antisocial behavior.