Lately, I’ve
been hearing a lot of back and forth between African-American men and African-American
women on some old nonsense television show called “Scandal.” From what I’ve
heard and read (I’ve never really actually seen the show), its about some
African American woman with a PR firm who’s involved with a white man who is
supposed to be the president. Everyone is up in arms because of the interracial
relationship and what he or she thinks it represents. A lot of African-American
women are saying they are empowered by the representation of a ‘powerful’ black
woman in the media. Black men are saying that African-American women are being
depicted as ‘negro bed wenches’ through this character. Here’s what I say.
First, I’m
not going to bash the show’s creator(s). I will not presume to understand the
reason or vision that drives the creator(s) to come up with such a story. However, I do take issue with those in
power who selectively choose certain
voices and visions to promote to the general public. Let’s be clear: there are
many visions, voices, and ideas that exist in our world. There are many stories
waiting to be told through our various artistic modes (movies, television,
music, dramatic theatre), but I notice that certain
voices are silenced and pushed to the back, while others are promoted whether
they are profit bearing or not. The powers that be in the media who have
deliberately selected this “Scandal” program to be delivered and promoted to us
have done so for a particular reason (Think back to what happened to rap music,
and how the artistic, socially conscious rap was eschewed by record companies
who favored ‘gangsta’ rap, despite artistic rap’s increasing popularity and
profitability). Regardless of the creator’s vision, the media machine has
decided to spin this program in a certain way to create social influence. Since
Hollywood is involved, you know this can’t be good for African-Americans. I
believe the show is being used to stir up tensions between African-American men
and women. It is a propaganda tool that was deliberately created for
African-American men and African-American women to project upon. I know some of
you will laugh and think, “Here we go with the conspiracy theories. It’s just a
show!” But check this out - throughout history regimes have employed the media
to achieve social aims. Just think about how the Goebbels used the newsreels to
trick an unsuspecting public to support the despicable agenda of the third
reich.
The powers
that be, which funded the dissemination of this program, know us all too well
psychologically. They know the mental scars that we suffer, which have their
roots in slavery and institutionalized racism. Shows like this serve as
propaganda to exploit that pain and further divide us. “Scandal” is not the
first of such propaganda – just the latest incarnation. That nonsense started
with the film, “Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner” – which upon viewing almost seems
like an infomercial with all of the extended monologues and speeches from all of
the characters. Whether it’s a black man/white woman or black woman/white man,
interracial romance in Hollywoodspeak follows the same script. Allow me to
elaborate:
1. The black
person in the romance has to have some quality that makes them different from
all the ‘other’ black people. They are either really smart like the character
in ‘Guess who’s coming to dinner’, or really rich like the ‘Scandal’ woman, or
they ‘are able to understand things from a different perspective’ like Halle
Berry’s character in ‘Monsters Ball’. The message to the mainstream is clear – the
average black person is basically an animal and only the ‘special’ ones are ok to deal with. Meanwhile,
the white person or other person involved in the relationship is merely average,
or in the case of ‘Scandal’ - obviously
incompetent and/or wicked (which is, from what I hear, the reason why he needs
the black woman to clean up his messes).
2.
Relationships are all about control, power, and politics. There’s rarely any
‘romance’ involved. No sweet courtship. No sacrifice of one to save the other. No
moments where you go, ‘aww…they’re so in love.’ In most cases the relationships
are characterized by lofty insincere speeches on race, conflict, arguments, threats,
violence, lots of rough sex, and you guessed it – that Tom and Jerry-cat and
mouse-soap opera nonsense.
White
love interest: I bet I can make you love me more than I love you!
Black
love interest: No
you won’t – I’ll make you love me more than I love you!
White
love interest: But you missed me when I went away – you love me more!
Black love
interest: Oh,
yeah! Well now I’m going to run away and then you’ll miss me and you’ll see
that you love me more!
In other
words: Don’t expect the story line in Scandal to look anything like that of,
say… “The Notebook”
3. The
relationships usually never end in marriage, and if they do the marriage is
short lived. In ‘Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner,’ there was lots of talk about
marriage, but no ceremony was showed – just an allusion to an ‘upcoming’ event.
The audience is allowed to believe that maybe by the time the wedding day
arrives, the white girl will come to her senses and get rid of the black dude.
Same with other interracial Hollywood-style romance garbage – Kirk never
married Uhura, Scandal woman will never marry the president (I hear he’s
already married). I could go on, but I have limited time. Overall message to
the mainstream – It’s okay to sleep with blacks, but don’t marry them unless
you have to.
4. The
partner of the African-American character constantly humiliates and or abuses him/her.
Sidney Poiter’s character was taken by the fiancé to be subjected to an
interrogation by her parents. When he meets them in the movie, it almost seems
like he’s at a job interview. In contrast, his
mom is just so sweet and accepting. She can’t wait to have a white
daughter-in-law. Don’t even get me started on what happened in Monsters Ball.
That just seemed like plantation rape to me. This ‘Scandal’ thing seems to be
the same. Correct me if I’m wrong, but what’s so romantic about some guy who’s
always either threatening you or holding you at arms length. Also, you would
think that in the process of cleaning up this dude’s messes, the Scandal woman
would see just how ratchet this guy is. Why would she even want him knowing all
the crap he’s been involved in? Doesn’t really sound like a strong black woman
if you ask me. Anyway, given the
humiliation and abuse they endure, it seems as if the African-American character
has to ‘prove’ his dedication or worthiness to the other in the relationship,
while the other has nothing to prove. That’s not something I’m willing to
swallow folks.
Now don’t
get me wrong. It’s not that I don’t believe that there can be genuine interracial
relationships based on love. In real life there are probably a few. I just
don’t think our mainstream media will ever fund or allow such a relationship to
be broadcast through any medium it controls. Our mainstream serves to reinforce
the existing socio-political structure, and I think even innocent TV shows and
movies are used for this purpose. With regard to our community it has always
been ‘divide and conquer’ and here’s how it works.
Most of us
African-Americans eat this poisoned media bait. We then project our racial
insecurities onto the films. Black
men and Black women crave and desire acceptance into the mainstream. Black men
prefer the black man/white woman interracial romances because they get to
pretend to be ‘the desired’ by mainstream. When they watch these films, they
get to feel as if they are ‘chosen’ or ‘special’. They feel as if they are
being validated by the mainstream. The reverse happens when black women watch
the black woman/white man interracial romance. Conversely, when the black man watches a black woman/white
man interracial romance, he feels as if he has to compete with the black woman
for a place of acceptance in the mainstream. She is being preferred, but he is
not, creating a jealousy. He is not feeling protective of the black woman, (like
some are disingenuously pretending to be in this ‘Scandal’ debate), but envious
of her apparent position in the mainstream. The same can be said for the black
woman when she watches the black male/white female interracial romance. Then
she’s the jealous one, thinking it’s the black male that’s keeping her from
being accepted. In the end it’s a lot of wishful thinking and fantasizing about
being accepted into a world that will never accept us. But they hold out the illusory
carrot stick to us in this form of banal escapism and we eat it up. But there is a price to pay for this
escapism – it costs us our sense of self-respect, our sense of unity, and our
sense of self-preservation.
In the end
Black men and Black women end up fighting each other when we should be helping
each other. We accuse each other
of cooperating with the mainstream to hold one another back. Black men and
Black women – wake up! It’s time to be honest. You’re not fighting about
‘Scandal’. You’re not fighting about ‘Guess Who?’ You’re fighting over
something neither of you are going to get. You will NEVER find acceptance in
the mainstream. I will repeat – NEVER! Get over it already! This society
defines itself on the basis of African-Americans holding a bottom-rung status.
To allow those of us of African descent to have real access would mean an
upheaval of the whole system – and this is something the mainstream will not
tolerate. It’s simple self-preservation. Likewise, we need to preserve ourselves.
We need to do like we did in the old days. If they won’t let you into their
hotel – make your own! You can’t eat in their restaurant – make your own! It’s
called nation-building folks. But we can only do this if we work TOGETHER!
Why is it
that we don’t fantasize about being accepted by each other? Why doesn’t the
black man fantasize about a beautiful black woman? Why aren’t black women
fantasizing about a wonderful, do-right black man? Sometimes I think it’s
because we equate the mainstream with power. All that the mainstream has is
illusory. It is a very loosely stacked deck of cards that is kept together by
what they are able to make us think about ourselves. It cannot control us or
shape our destiny unless we allow it. Like the character of the Scandal woman,
we never stop to think about if what we are pursuing is actually worthy of
ourselves. Too many of us hide in
the secret of our heart, a desire to be chosen, to be that ‘special negro’. Too
many of us would rather be a doormat in someone else’s reality than to live
with dignity in the reality Christ has purchased for us. What’s so special
about the mainstream? Why do we have to be a part of it? There are many
cultural groups in this country that eschew it, to make and preserve their own
cultural mores and traditions. Why can’t African-Americans do this? We know
that the messages the machine sends us are always destructive to us. So why do
we keep on imbibing things like ‘Scandal’? Why do we keep drinking this poison-
even when we know it’s poison.
Some people
will say it’s harmless fun, or it’s just entertainment. That’s what people say
about weed and heroine – drugs that take away our inhibitions and lull us into
a false sense of security. For some people ‘Scandal,’ and media junk like it, is
their drug. It’s a coping device that makes living in this hard, cold,
discriminatory world a little easier. For an hour one can pretend to be the
Scandal woman and have the mainstream’ s limited and grudging admiration and be
‘special’. But as with any drug, the security is temporary. When the hour is
over, we have to go back to facing reality. ‘Scandal’ changes nothing. It does
what all other drugs do – keep us so that we do nothing about the things that
really bother us. It keeps us from enacting the real changes that can move us
from being a subjugated minority to an independent people.
So I say to
African-American men and African-American women - stop arguing about scandal.
Instead, start working together to do the things that can help us move
forward. Both of us need to start taking responsibility and stop finger
pointing and blaming each other for what’s going on in our community. The real
culprit is the mainstream’s use of institutional racism. African-American men
and African-American women must work together
if we are going to find ways to undermine this insidious influence. Both of us
need to start listening to each other’s points of view and stop reacting like
victims. Both of us need to start loving ourselves. Finally, both need to stop
serving the god of the mainstream (with all of its pernicious vices like lust
for power, money, sex, leisure and material goods) and serve the True and
Living God, who controls the mainstream and everything and everyone in it.
There is no other authority than that of God. When you serve Him, all other ‘so
called’ authorities lose their power over you. Then you begin to ask the
important questions.
You start asking the real hard questions
like, “Where are our other stories?”
Hollywood and the mainstream media only show very few facets of our complex
community and most of which are usually negative. Though many want to say that
the prevailing media fare is ‘real’, I must say as an African-American, I have
a hard time relating to most of it to the point to where I just can’t watch TV
anymore. Instead I wonder, “How come no one has attempted to make an endearing,
down to earth, African-American love story that revolves around the lives to
two everyday people without all of the ‘booty-call’ sex? The closest we got was
“Love Jones,” and that was still pretty shallow (at least in my opinion). I’m sick to death of all these black
romantic comedies where the main characters are acting as if they’re trying on
relationships like sweaters at the mall. I don’t know about anyone else, but I
would love to see an enduring romance with two African-American characters
connecting on a more spiritual and emotional level.
I would also
like to see stories of African-American friendships that involve men and women
who care about each other being put on the big screen and not just a bunch of
black women who sit around complaining about black men (Waiting to Exhale) or
black men who sit around complaining about black women (The Best Man). I want
to see an African-American sci-fi story, and an action adventure flick that
doesn’t revolve around robbing someone (Takers, Set it Off) or driving fast
cars. Where are the stories that celebrate the strong black fathers who are
taking care of business? Where are our black children’s films? In fact, where
are the stories that tell our children’s view of the world? Where are our films
of faith that are about getting to God and not getting a husband? These are
stories that promote healing and a real dialogue. These are stories that will
give us hope as a people. These are the stories that allow us to see our own
humanity and cause us to value each other. They are out there, but we as a
people need to fund and promote them and stop waiting for what comes from the Hollywood
machine. We have to do it, and we have to work outside of the system, just like
we did with rap when it first came out. Yes, its harder this way, but still
doable and most of all – its necessary!
DON’T BE
FOOLED – THE MAINSTREAM HAS NO PREFERENCE TOWARD EITHER GENDER when it comes to
race so don’t bother bringing up false evidence like interracial marriage
statistics and such. (If you’re not sure, really think about what the owner of
the Clippers said during a racist rant while in a relationship with a black
woman, nonetheless. Racists will date and, on occasion, even marry
African-Americans – doesn’t mean they like them) It is determined to reinforce
the subjugation and eventual DESTRUCTION of all people of African descent (male, female, young, old, rich,
middle class, poor, Christian, non-Christian, intelligent or otherwise). It’s
time for us to stop arguing about and fighting for someone else’s validation
(which will never come) and accept the validation God has already given us
through the blood of His Son Jesus Christ. Now that’s FREEDOM!
Whether you
want it or not, there’s my $.02.
Peace.
L.C.
P.S. – It is
not my intention to undermine the work of the talented African-American actors
who derive their livelihood from this program. As actors, Ms. Washington and
the rest have my respect. While I do not watch the program, I recognize
everyone has a right to make their own choices with regard to the matter.
Rather, I am stating my opinion not just of this particular show, but of the
entertainment industry as a whole. I just feel that we need to be more
discerning when it comes to what we watch on TV and analyze what we consume
rather than sit back and be passively entertained.
Good stuff
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