When some women get
upset at their boyfriends or their husbands they destroy things that mean
something to them. Some may go out of their way to take a man’s collection of
prized comic books and toss them in the trash. Others may pour bleach on a man’s
favorite shirt. A few may put a rock through his big screen TV or break the CD
for his favorite video game.
The sad part is in
many cases most men will just turn the other cheek and let this out of control behavior
go unchecked. And because they won’t draw that line in the sand with the women who
do them wrong they won’t learn a valuable lesson about respect.
What most men don’t
understand is when women do things like cut up clothes, toss away keepsakes,
and destroy property they are sending them a message. That they have absolutely
no respect for them. Unfortunately because men don’t check this behavior and
set a hard boundary with them, women start thinking they can cross more lines
and start doing things like physically assaulting them. A few will even go as
far as planning to murder them.
A man a must
understand his respect has a value above the property she destroyed. And that
intangible of manhood is NON NEGOTIABLE. When a woman won’t give a man any
respect, he has to take it. While he cannot haul off and slap a female for
destroying his property, he can take constructive action to teach her that her
behavior is unacceptable and will not be tolerated.
What can a man do
when a woman destroys his property? He can take her to Small Claims Court.
Small Claims court deals with disputes regarding property anywhere from $1-5,000.
If a man wins a judgment they’re good for ten years. And he even can renew that
judgment in the next decade. So wherever this female goes, she’s going to be stuck
with that debt on her record.
Small Claims Court
is a place where a man can go to not only be recompensed for his damaged
property but send a message to a woman he’s involved with regarding her out of
control behavior. What is that message? If she acts out a man will take legal action
to deal with her out of control behavior. And he will take action to make her take
responsibility for her actions. If he wins a judgment she will be forced to pay
for any item she damages or destroys.
Even If he doesn’t
win in court, he sends a message to that woman and other women in his radius
that he’s not a man to be fucked with. Making her take that day in court to
deal with the ramifications of her out of control behavior shows a woman that a
man is serious about setting a boundary for how he will be treated in a
relationship. That his respect has value above that property she destroyed. And
he will make efforts to take his respect at any cost.
If she won’t show up for court, she
sends a message to the world that she has not only any respect for him, but for
the legal system as well. And if she shows up and acts out with a judge, her
reprehensible, and egregious and out of control behavior is part of a public
record.
Yes, a woman has a
right to be upset. She has a right to her feelings in a relationship. But she
does not have a right to act in a way that damages or destroys to property that
isn’t hers. She has a responsibility to treat that man’s property with the same
care she would her own.
If enough men started
sending a message to women that their behavior will be dealt with when they act
out and destroy their property, they’d stop destroying property when they got
angry and upset. When they start seeing a consequence to their actions such as
how their lives are becoming disrupted by court dates and judgments against their
finances, many would realize the price of getting revenge on a man is just too
high.
I wonder what would happen if you're dealing with a fictional character made flesh. I suppose it would be just as bad if we take their personalities into account. People who desperately want to be calm (and prefer to either keep their bad feelings hidden or distract themselves with something) don't want to deal with somebody who whines a lot.
ReplyDeleteThe person who wants to be happy (and tries to distract itself from bad feelings so it's not very open) would find Kitty Pryde and her tantrums unbearable. So to them, she's not fun to deal with and some people just don't like these guys.
The only character who doesn't tolerate her behaviour to my knowledge is Charles Xavier but he's a strict old man so that's to be expected. He scolds her whenever she gets angry and even when he caved in to her, he still tries to correct her.
Not because he's a jerk but because he expects highly of her. You might accuse me of projection but some people are like this.