Okay, I’ve been
really busy. Right now I’m working on two projects: The Spinsterella prequel
Spellbound, and a nonfiction project inspired by a series of YouTube Videos I
did called Why You shouldn’t Hire a Mangina. When I did those videos I realized
there were a lot of Simps in the workplace. And I wanted to teach men why they
should STOP SIMPIN in the workplace.
Every year men put
their careers at risk Simpin and trickin on the job. And they cost their
companies billions of dollars in sexual harassment lawsuits and losses from
crimes like embezzlement and fraud in their quest to chase the panties of some
female on the job. I’m hoping the STOP SIMPIN in the workplace book will help
men understand why they need to put themselves FIRST on the job. Because the
only person looking out for a man on the job is himself
Anyway, here’s a
sample chapter of the book I’m hoping to have out by either the holiday season
or early 2017.
Chapter 18 (Tentative)
The Dangers Of He Said, She Said Situations
One
of the most dangerous places for a man on the job is working alone in an office
or part of an office space with a woman. In those situations a man doesn’t have
anyone around to witness what goes on between them. If there’s some sort of workplace
issue or personal issue between them, a man can find himself in between a rock
and a hard place.
Simps
think being alone with a woman in the office is actually a good thing. They
believe if they’re alone with a woman they’ll have an opportunity to make a
powerful first impression on her. And if an innocent conversation that turns
sexual or happens to escalate into horseplay between him and a woman he’s
getting brownie points with her.
He
has no idea that he may have possibly signed his own pink slip. In some cases
he may have even have signed his own arrest warrant. What most Simps don’t know
is that being alone with a woman in an office creates a he said she said
situation. And in that situation it’s his word against hers.
And
usually in the workplace Human Resource managers are going to take her word
over his.
Simps
don’t understand that predatory women love situations where they are alone with
men. Because they know they can turn them to their advantage. Predatory women
love getting people’s emotions riled up. And they use people’s emotions to turn
herself into a victim and him into a villain. And because most workplaces are
gynocentric and most HR people will favor the female, she knows he doesn’t have
a leg to stand on in a he said, she said situation on the job.
Predatory
women will use he said she said situations to set themselves up for a sexual
harassment lawsuit or civil lawsuit. And with only two witnesses they usually
win. Because it’s hard for a company to argue against a sobbing woman on the
witness stand.
Smart
men make sure they keep their professional interactions with women public. And
they make sure there are always witnesses around when they are working with
women. If they have to work in private with a female they always bring another
female employee with them to witness their interaction. Some men make sure to
have some sort of recording device on like a Smartphone to have a visual and
audible record of their communications. The more evidence a man has to protect
himself from a he said, she said situation, the safer he’ll be in the
workplace.
I'm a supporter of your work, Shawn, but I have to ask - where are you getting this from? Aren't you self-employed and have not been in a work environment for years? You're talking as if you're a veteran corporate executive.
ReplyDeleteNo hate here, just asking.
Worked in corporate environments in 2000, 2002 and 2008. And one of those was the STRIVE the leading job readiness workshop in the country at the time. Learned a lot about protocol during my year there.
ReplyDeleteI've also got family members who tell me stories about the business world and how guys get caught up dealing with women on the job. Also, I've read articles about guys like Roger Ailes of Fox news and could easily identify the Simp paradigm there.
The advice given in this chapter came to me from a Black male co-worker back in 2000. Saved my butt back then and I thought it'd save a few more brothers from getting set up by ratchet women. This book is designed to help guys keep their jobs and learn how to deal with women in the workplace.