In
the wake of the numerous shootings here in New York City, community leaders are
making calls to stop the violence.
Shawn
says stop the bullshit.
Twenty
years ago when I was a teenager in the South Bronx during the crack epidemic, there
were similar calls for the violence to stop. Back then over 2,200 people were
murdered and thousands more victims of gunfire that plagued New York City
Streets.
After
all those rallies and marches all those people had were sore feet and sore
throats. The violence still continued. Because all people did was go and
release some anger at the protest but made no active efforts to make changes in
their communities.
Instead
of making calls to stop the violence I say people should just stay angry. Maybe
it’ll make them passionate enough to do something in their communities outside
of paying lip service.
Instead
of protesting to stop the violence How about we:
Stop promoting Thug Culture. Want to know why there are so
many shootings in the inner-city? Because people in the neighborhood keep
promoting Hyper-masculinized images of Thugs, gang bangers and other assorted
criminals as the ideal image of manhood in the inner-city.
And
because people in the community promote this image, many young boys identify
with this image as to what a “real” man is. Others dress and act like this to
get the attention of girls who are also misled to what a man is.
Many
don’t know that this image is FAKE and MADE UP by people in Madison Avenue and
Hollywood. That it’s a caricature created to sell products to them like those
$200 sneakers and $50,000 Escalades. Moreover, it’s created to keep them from
competing in academic circles like high school and college and making real
money and building wealth that will improve the quality of life for people in
the inner-cities.
I
guarantee you if Brothers going to college and starting their own businesses as
the ideal, many an inner-city male would stop trying to be thugs and go a
different route. Maybe even the homicide rate would go down in the Black
community.
Stop Supporting gangs, dope boys
and other assorted thugs. Many
of the very same people who are protesting the violence are covertly supporting
it. They’re the ones paying lip service at the rallies and crying when their
friends die, but flash gang signs any other time. The ones who cry over
children who are shot but have gang members in their homes selling weed. They’re
the parents who enable their kids to bully and recruit kids into gangs in local
schools.
If
inner-city residents really wanted to stop the violence, they’d stop enabling
the criminals and the criminal activity they bring to the community. You can’t
stop the violence in a community if you’re actively participating it. Moreover
you can’t ask to stop the violence in a community if you’re actively enriching
yourself from it.
Stop being afraid of your
children. If all
the parents in the community put their foot down and told their kids they
weren’t going to be in a gang, there wouldn’t be any gangs in the inner-city.
The reason so many kids are in gangs are because parents are afraid of them.
If
enough parents in the community put their foot down and told their kids that if
they joined a gang they would be put out of the house, they’d quit that gang in
a minute. Those children would be so scared they’d disband that gang in an
instant. After a few days on the streets with no home and no food, and no
money, they wouldn’t even think of uttering the word Crip or Blood. But too
many adults are too scared of their children to enforce such tough love on them
to get them in line.
Personally,
I believe parents are too scared of ACS and Child abuse laws. It’s time to
start regulating on these kids and enforcing the strict discipline they need to
become functional adults. A child isn’t a thug or a gangsta. They’re just
parroting the bullshit Madison Avenue and Hollywood are telling them. They’re
you’re children. Tell them something different. And if they won’t hear that,
break a foot off in their ass. It’s better for you to put a shoe in their
behind than have the police put a bullet in their back a few later and say it
was a justified shooting.
Men need to Stop acting So Bitch-Made™. Want to know why so many
innocent people get shot? Because Bitch-Made™ males get bested in a fight or
laughed at and can’t take it like men. In the face of social humiliation these
emotional cowards run away (sometimes crying) and go get a gun then come back
and start shooting. In their attempts to get revenge innocent people wind up in
the crossfire because these little baby boys can’t handle the little pressures
in life. LIFE IS HARD. MAN THE FUCK UP.
Stop Trickin’. One reason why so many dudes pull
out a gun in a club is because they’re fighting over a woman. Only both these
fools don’t know that they’re probably being played. They’re both so thirsty
for some ass they can’t see the bigger picture.
Neither
man understands that both of them are going to lose. When the smoke clears, one
man is dead, the other is in jail. And the chick they were both fighting over
is out taking advantage of two other men. Dudes need to understand that no
woman is worth fighting over. She’s not going to do your time or give you your
life back.
Men need to stop being so damn
Macho. Another reason
why so many men pull out a gun and start shooting is because they think they’re
so macho. When in actually just insecure. They can’t stand someone looking at
their girl. They can’t stand someone talking to their girl. And because they
have no self-confidence, they have to hide behind a fake tough guy veneer and
start fights over nonsense, and pull guns on people so they can look like a
badass. If these baby boys would stop being so insecure about their manhood
maybe it’d save a life or two. It might even save their own.
Stop getting so emotional. On the streets people get hot
because someone looked at their woman. In the club they get angry because
someone bumped into them or said something they didn’t like. Some go crazy when
someone just looks at them. Instead of just walking away like an adult, they
let their emotions get the better of them. They lose it and in some cases they
lose their lives or wind up doing prison time. People need to stop letting
their emotions get the better of them. Count to ten, walk around the block. Do
something before they do something they regret. It only takes a moment of anger
to do something that can cost a person 10-25 years of their life in prison.
Stop drinking until you’re drunk.
There’s nothing
wrong with having a drink. But in a lot of cases of street violence many people
are either drunk or high out of their minds. Because of this they’re not
thinking straight, they make rash decisions that have lifetime ramifications
for others and themselves. If people would stop drinking until they were drunk
on the weekends maybe it’d save a life or two.
Stop getting high. Most of the crimes committed in
the inner-city are done by individuals who are high on weed laced on cocaine,
PCP or people on cocaine or other narcotic substance. If people would stop
drugging then their inhibitions wouldn’t be lowered and they wouldn’t go out
and commit the stick-ups, shootings and stabbings that fill police blotters on
Friday and Saturday night.
Start bringing in your kids at a
reasonable hour.
Many shootings happen way after midnight. And at that time I’ve seen eight and
nine year old children out in the park or on the streets when they should be at
home in bed. How about parents start insisting their kids come in at a
reasonable hour. No child under the age of twelve should be out on the street
after eight. And no teenager should be out on the streets after eleven. Maybe
so many kids wouldn’t be caught in the cross-fire if people brought them in at
a reasonable hour. And maybe so many kids wouldn’t get into trouble if they
were at home at a reasonable hour.
Start enforcing discipline. Want to stop kids from acting out
and participating in violence? Enforce discipline on them. Impose curfews. And
if you have to tear that ass up with a belt.
Start finding out what your kids
are doing. Want
to find all those illegal guns? Do a search of their stuff. Want to find that
weed? Look around in their rooms. Or just talk to your kids. Until they turn
18, they are your responsibility. Find out what those kids are doing and what
they’re involved in.
Stop with the bullshit. We shouldn’t have to wait for someone to get
shot to do something. No, stopping the violence shouldn’t be a reactive thing.
Instead it should be proactive. Moreover, it should be something everyone does
every day.
We
don’t need poverty pimp activists to rally us or get us to march in the street.
We don’t need more calls for a stronger police presence. We’ve been calling for
that stuff for close to 40 years and our communities continue to get worse with
each passing generation.
No,
people in the inner-city need to get their stuff together and stop making
excuses for their irresponsible behavior and the irresponsible behavior of
their children. It’s the little things ALL of us in the ghetto do that have a
big impact on the quality of life for everyone. If we all made small efforts
each day towards maintaining our neighborhoods then the violence would stop.
Inner-city
residents can’t ask the police or anyone else to clean up their community. No,
that starts with us. We need to stop protesting for the police to give us safer
streets and start making efforts to make our neighborhoods safe for ourselves.
Don’t
Stop the Violence. Stop the Bullshit. Clean up your own neighborhoods.
This one, Shawn, is an absolute winner, one of the best any of us will ever read on the topic. It's so good that I won't single out any one element. they're all truly necessary to stop the violence.
ReplyDeleteI have a suggestion though, and it's a small one. I hate the term "bitch" anything, although it seems here to stay. Like race prejudice, this one is the embodiment of gender prejudice and a degradation of womanhood. You may be using the term "bitchmale" because it's in wide usage and you want people to recognize these men. If so, I have to accept it, as long as you and others realize what the term does to society.
Other than this, i find this faultless. truly real and helpful. As usual, only some of us will follor
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