About a week ago when I wrote my blog discussing how
ex-offenders were getting considered for employment by companies I got a
comment from someone who said they were an employer who suggested I delete
everything on my blog and my YouTube channel if I hope to get considered for
employment. According to them a potential employer can Google someone and if
they find something they don’t like, they won’t consider you for a job.
So according to them anything you say online can and will be
used against you in an employment search. And according to them, that’s one of
the reasons why I’ve been having such a hard time finding a job these last
eight years.
When I heard this, I thought about something Christ said
after the Pharisees and the Saducees confronted Him with the adulteress.
He who is without sin cast the first stone.
And I say this to employers: Judge and ye shall not be
judged. I’m sure if I Googled any of these HR people out here, I’d find a
skeleton bone or two in their closets that could cost them their jobs.
Listening to this so-called employer proves my point that narrative
seems to be more important to bosses than skills these days. Gang tattoos on
someone’s neck, women doing twerk videos and posting topless photos on an Instagram
or a Facebook account are fine, but an opinion on a blog or a YouTube video?
That’s something that can lead to a manager at a company rejecting a perfectly
qualified guy like myself for a job.
Don’t you just
love double standards? And the hypocrisy behind them? It just shows us how full
of shit people actually are.
I find it interesting how this so-called employer feels my strong
and critical opinions on a blog or a YouTube video disqualify me for employment
but people with felony convictions, wearing neck tattoos, posting twerk videos,
topless photos on Instagram, posting weed smoking pictures on Facebook and
racist rants on a blog, all that’s perfectly fine. The opinions I present on a
blog or in a YouTube video would reflect negatively on a company’s image, but
hiring someone with a gang tat or a person who promotes drug use at a company
that does drug tests, that’s okay. That promotes diversity and tolerance.
Just like Jesus said, straining at a gnat, but swallowing a
camel.
Supporting the
difference of opinion would be the true test of tolerance for an employer. And
it would show how a diversity of ideas would be considered in a workplace. Unfortunately, too many employers these
days are so thin-skinned that anything someone says offends them. They ask
people to have sterling character, but don’t show that through their hiring
practices.
This whole quest some employers have to look for a “perfect”
person for their jobs is completely insane. According to Christ we were all
born in sin and we’re all sinners. So there’s no chance of finding some perfect
person out there. Everyone has screwed up at least once in their lives. And
it’s wrong to hold that against them. If God can forgive someone, and they can
overlook their own past mistakes why can’t that same employer take a chance on
a guy like me?
I’ve worked around ex-offenders, former homeless people, and
addicts in recovery. And I never once judged them about their pasts or their
presents. As long as they did their work I was cool with them. When I go to
work, I’m about my job. And as long as the quality of my work is good, an
employer shouldn’t have a problem with me. The way I see it, if an employer can
accept the guy with the neck tats, the receptionist who made a twerk video she
posted on YouTube, or the Administrative assistant who posted topless pictures from
her vacation on Instagram and Facebook, then they should have no problem
working with the Black man who wrote hundreds of blogs related to or made a
series of YouTube Videos where he expressed his opinion on subject matter.
I’m not deleting my blogs. Nor am I deleting my YouTube
Channel. The way I figure it what I published is going to be someplace in
cyberspace. Many of my so-called offensive blogs like Why Real Men avoid Single
Mothers and What Women don’t know about being the Side Piece have been shared
all over the world hyperlinked and reposted on numerous websites across the
globe. And many of my YouTube videos have been shared and reposted on other
sites. So there’s no escaping what I’ve written and recorded. So if someone is
going to hire me, they’re going to hire me based on the quality of my work, not
the opinions I express.